Author: Tisha Murrell

Ready to marry your partner? Here are some things you need to consider before you tie the knot

Ready to marry your partner? Here are some things you need to consider before you tie the knot

Financial Status A stable financial situation is essential, whether you are on your own or in a relationship. However, a problem might pop up when it’s time to consider whether your financial style is compatible with your partner’s. Different spending habits may pose an even 

Safe Anal Sex: What everyone needs to know

Safe Anal Sex: What everyone needs to know

While anal sex used to be a taboo activity, it is becoming incredibly common for younger people. In fact, 44% of men and 36% of women who are younger than age 45 have tried it at least once. What’s more, there are many ways to 

What Do Other Men Get from Urethral Sounding

What Do Other Men Get from Urethral Sounding

Despite the fact that they may look somewhat alarming, penis plugs, otherwise called urethral sounds, are a famous instrument for sexual experimentation and arousal, and are helping the two couples and men to arrive at new degrees of sexual pleasure.

Feeling somewhat doubtful? Here are the main five motivations to check out one.

Overly Sensitive

In the event that you are a fan of arousal and pleasure, at that point chances are you will be a major fan of penis plugs! Penis plugs tempt the nerve endings within the pole, particularly those that sit simply behind the leader of the penis, giving exceptional stimulation and uplifted affectability.

Joined with masturbation this makes a strongly ground-breaking orgasm that will frequently last significantly longer than those achieved by your hand alone. To truly expand your orgasmic pleasure, take a stab at expelling the plug from your penis at the purpose of ejaculation and let her blow!

There are likewise plugs available that are structured explicitly to hit every one of those nerves the length of the pole. Look at the ribbed, humped and balled determination on offer in our Penis Urethral Play area.

Couple’s Play

Penis plugs don’t really mean it’s simply you, your hand and your plug today around evening time, yet can likewise be incorporated as a seriously satisfying piece of couples play. As the plug contacts the sensitive dividers of your pole and squeezes those minor nerve endings even the gentlest of contacts will make them edge nearer to climax.

Be it a stroke, a lick or a kiss, or a suck you will stick the edge of your seat. Through gap plugs have a hallow tube down the middle and are an extraordinary decision for most couples exercises as they allow ejaculation while the plug is still inside you.

Bling Baby

Wanna add a touch of bling to your thing? There’s nothing more beautiful than a penis with a quite little plug (or a truly large plug for those with a touch of experience). With a plug inside ya you can have some good times and sex appeal of a Prince Albert puncturing without adding another opening to your part. If you truly need to look in the same class as you feel give a jeweled one a go! What might look more tasteful than a blue sparkler looking out from your cock?

Harden Up

It’s not just those orgasmic sensations made by the plug that will get you immediately hard yet the plug itself is a magic little apparatus for keeping you harder for more. Metal is the most widely recognized, and certainly the most famous, material for plugs and obviously the hardest. It will truly have your pole resembling, great, a pole. Not exclusively will you be hard as a stone yet if you are wearing a strong plug, at that point you can likewise go for longer as the plug will limit your ejaculation.

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For some, particularly those that like to fuse a tad of BDSM into their playtime, the excitement related with being penetrated is a key purpose behind evaluating a penis plug.

Regardless of whether joined into a compliant sex role, or as a piece of a medical role play, the insertion and penetration of the plug into the penis can be very stirring whether you are playing alone or with a partner. The limitations of ejaculation forced by the strong penis plugs are likewise an attract for those needing to stay in a compliant role.

Brisk note on hygiene and safety

There is requirement for a couple of safeguards when making use of these products, particularly for newbies. Make a point to completely spotless and sterilize the plug before use with bubbling water and make use of a quality sterile lubricant for insertion.

Likewise know about shape and size. It is best for fledglings to pick a slight plug with an adjusted tip as this is the most straightforward to insert. Relax and allow the plug to slide deeper into your urethra and become acclimated to the experience. Never force it, in or out, as this can cause more damage than anything else.

What Does Sounding Feel Like?

There are huge amounts of sensitive nerve endings in the tip of the penis and down the length of the urethra, so it tends to be entirely pleasurable to animate these nerve endings with urethral sounds. Additionally, as we mentioned, you can straightforwardly animate the prostate inside with extraordinary sounding, so the potential for pleasure is astronomical and might have the option to exceed customary anal prostate milking orgasms.

Safety Advice and Tips for Urethral Play

– Don’t make use of sounding rods that are excessively slight. In the event that you use rods that are excessively flimsy and you dive down deep toward your prostate, quite possibly’s the rod could cut your bladder. It’s difficult for me to try and compose that sentence without squirming in my seat. Better yet, get your penis plugs at, because they are guaranteed safe, and of high-quality.

– Don’t make use of sounding rods that are too thick either! Making use of too-thick rods can stretch and tear your urethra in manners that hurt… a ton.

– Burning at the tip of the urethra subsequent to peeing is quite typical after your initial barely any seasons of being sounded. Most folks report this leaves in the wake of being sounded around multiple times, however watch out for it in the event that it proceeds. Unreasonable urethra pain must not happen inevitably.

– Don’t do cock sounding again and again. There are no genuine rules on how regularly you should sound, however I wouldn’t by and by do it anything else than once every week. The urethra doesn’t have a similar stretch and versatility as different pieces of the body – it won’t “become accustomed to” repeated sounding well overall.

– Women don’t have to go far. In the event that a lady needs to make use of sounding rods, she can, however she doesn’t have to dive as deep down as a man does. A lady’s urethra is just 1.5 inches long while a man’s is normally 7-8 inches in length because of the length of the penis.

– There can never be sufficient lube. The urethra isn’t self-greasing up, so use huge amounts of surgical lube from a legitimate medical supplier.

5 Ways Sex Toys are Fantastic for Your Relationship

5 Ways Sex Toys are Fantastic for Your Relationship

As society becomes more sex- and pleasure-positive, sex toys are making their way into bedrooms all over the world. Once, poorly-made, shady-looking objects that could only be found at equally shady places, sex toys have come a long way. All you have to do is 

The 10 most common problems people have in relationships – and how to solve them

The 10 most common problems people have in relationships – and how to solve them

Every relationship experiences issues and pressures at one point or another, from arguments to problems with sex or worries over money. Here, Relate counsellor Rachel Davies addresses the 10 most common problems people have in relationships and how they can be worked out 1. Arguments 

Top 3 best sex toys

Top 3 best sex toys

I[/dropcap. WAS EXPOSED TO the sex-toy market a lot earlier than most. My mother started an adult toy business when I was in my mid-teens.

In the beginning she specialised in hen’s nights and Tupperware-style parties, replacing plastic containers with rubber fists, rabbits and vibrating eggs. When I left school for university, I approached my mum about taking the business with me: an institution full of horny youngsters exploring their sexuality looked like the perfect market to me. My mum agreed.

Once I learned the ropes, I was selling stock and running parties like a pro and it was one of the best experiences I’ve ever had.

During my stint as a purveyor of sex toys, the biggest sellers made for an interesting list. On the outside, people seem so vanilla and reserved. Get them in front of some sex toys and you are looking at a totally different person.

You wouldn’t think a conservative person could be a kinked-out nympho. I’m here to tell you it is very, very common.

Top 3 most popular sex toys


This is a given. The famous rabbit vibrator sold like hot cakes. The boys bought it for their girlfriends to get kinky, the girls bought it because their boyfriends weren’t satisfying them and the gays bought for their biggest fag hag. The rabbit will never die in the adult toy world!


Metal, rubber, leather or silicon cock rings are a constant and popular seller. Making the penis bigger and harder makes everyone happy, because whatever the size, it’s never quite big enough. (Sorry, boys.)


This was a surprise for me. The ultimate in reverse dildos, pocket pussies come in rubber, silicon or cyber skin and are sold with lube (using it dry can leave a guy walking funny).

Selling sex toys wasn’t just about moving stock; a large part of it was about education. I had to learn on the job about the different materials sex toys are made from, and which materials I would consider to be the best.

The best sex toy materials


Believe it or not, these are the most hygienic and sense-tingling dildos you will ever use. You can heat them up or cool them down and they get you going in all the right places. Plus they look really trendy… even sex toys have their own fashion cycles.


This is the closest you can get to the real thing: Cyberskin looks and feels like real skin. The only issue is maintenance: you need to wash it every time you use it. With some, this may mean washing it daily, so stock up on some mild soap. Do not use oil or alcohol-based cleaning products to wash it – you’d be surprised how many people try to Easy Off Bam their toys.


Like glass, stainless steel is clean and rocks the senses. Mix it with different lubes and heat it or cool it for maximum effect.

Sex toys are more commonly used than you would think. Ask your friends if they have a sex toy and you might be surprised at the answers. (If they say no, in my experience, there is a good chance they’re lying.)

Toys make great gifts (just ask my friends) and they can help to spice up your love life. Pay a visit to your local sex shop and explore your desires – though not on the shop floor. They get really weird about that.

Sex toys reviewed by an adult party host

Sex toys reviewed by an adult party host

Sex toys comes in myriad shapes and sizes, but one women fully conversant with the gamut of offerings is Sarah Jane Banahan, founder of sex party collective The Play Experience. Who better to review the latest offerings from high-end manufacturer, Perlesque? Eris Rabbit Vibrator: the 

About Time: Men Admitted They Like Sex Toys Do

About Time: Men Admitted They Like Sex Toys Do

Masturbation, sadly, is an act overwhelmingly associated with men. Women today may well be far more sexually liberated than their grandmothers were, but it’s still taboo openly talk about self-pleasure. Bashing the bishop, jerking the gherkin, even the amount of slang terms available for women’s 

The Best Penis Extender – How to Choose the Right One?

The Best Penis Extender – How to Choose the Right One?

You might have encountered the term “penis extender” before. But, maybe you are still not sure what it is or why would anyone use it.

However, there are hints in the term itself. Penis extenders are plastic or rubber sleeves that go over the penis and add more inches, both in girth and length.

Some of them are closed on top, while others feature an open tip. Furthermore, some extenders feature stimulating nubs, while other types are smooth. Nevertheless, this guide will explain the different types and help you figure out which is the right one for you.

More Length and Girth

So, why do most men try penis extenders? Well, they usually try them because they want to know what it’s like to have a longer, girthier or bigger penis.

Maybe you always wanted to know how your penis would look if it were bigger than usual. Also, perhaps you’ve wondered if your partner would enjoy it more then. If that’s the case, then using a penis extender is a great, non-permanent tool that will allow you to have a bigger cock.

Erectile Dysfunction

If you have erectile dysfunction, then a penis extender sleeve is one of the best choices. Most people who suffer from this condition say that they lose the erection during the sex. Therefore, it is sometimes difficult or entirely impossible to go on, even though both they and their partner want to continue.

If you have this issue, a penis extender sleeve can help. Once your penis is erect, place the sleeve on top of it and start having sex without worrying about your hardness. Since these sleeves are often stiff and firm, even if you lose the erection, it’s still possible to continue the intercourse.

The Best Extender Sleeves

If you are interested in trying out one of these sleeves, you should know more about the features you should consider. Take a look at the main varieties so that you can understand what you should be looking for.


If you want the extender to add inches to the girth, but you still want to keep the sensation, then an open-ended sleeve might be the best choice for you.

Most sleeves have a closed top, which means that the penis head cannot be stimulated. However, an open-ended sleeve will allow you to experience all the pleasure, and your measurements will increase, too.


This type of an extender is the classic extension sleeve that goes over your penis. However, even though most of these sleeves are stiff and easy to use, this particular one is supposed to be floppy so as to give you more realistic sensations.


Smooth penis extenders are great, but if you want to experience a new kind of pleasure, then you should try textured sleeves.

The exterior nubs and ridges will stimulate your partner even more, but make sure to use a lot of lube to enhance the feeling further.


Some extender sleeves come with a testicle loop. The loop goes over the balls and keeps the sleeve on your penis while you’re having sex. But, if you don’t like that, then maybe you should try a harness extender.

It works like a strap-on dildo, but it’s hollow. Also, it comes with straps that go around your body and keep the sleeve in place.

Using a Penis Extender

Don’t worry – using an extender is quite easy. You just have to pour some water-based lube to the inside of the extender and on yourself. Once you get an erection, put your penis into the sleeve. Make sure that the testicle ring goes around the balls. But, if you’ve opted for the hollow strap-on, arrange the straps around your body and make sure that they feel comfortable.

A few types of extender sleeves  have some texture on the outside as well. That can help you stimulate your partner even more. However, remember that this type of a sleeve need extra lube so that sex is comfortable at all times. There are also cock cages that serves as extender at the same time. It doesn’t have features like a typical lockthecock cages have that locks the partner’s genitals and the key holder only can have access. It may sound bizarre but most couples who incorporates cock cages as part of their sex life says it leads to a new level of sense of security and healthier relationship.

Once you’re done with your sleeve, remember to wash it properly and prepare it for the next time.

The Best Relationship Advice I Ever Received

The Best Relationship Advice I Ever Received

Relationships are hard. They take a lot of dedication, focus, and work. Finding the right person to settle down with can often feel like a very frustrating game of chance. And even when you do find the right one, you’ll still have your work cut